As we grow older, we realize that holidays aren’t just about material items. They’re about spending time together as a family and making memories. It’s not about how much you spent on someone, but the brief time you have under the same roof. Since extended families don’t often live in the same neighborhood they way they did decades ago, it’s a great time to catch up and get nostalgic over the times when you didn’t need a plane ticket to see each other. It’s good to cherish the time that you have.
Traditions are also great since they can be passed down from generation to generation. If there’s something special that you and your parents did around the holidays, like buying a tree at a well-known lot or hanging up decorations as a family, you’ll probably make sure to pass those moments on when you’re celebrating with a spouse. Even small habits can become important traditions.
While some traditions may be similar, each one is different in its own way. Two families might use the same cookie recipe. But they’ll likely taste a little different based on the person making them. Maybe one house uses Splenda while the other uses sugar, or perhaps nuts are added to a recipe that never called for it. Aside from looking forward to these traditions each year, you might find them to be even more important in the future. When relatives pass away, it’s nice to remember them by re-creating their special holiday touches.
We reached out to individuals to share some of their own special traditions. Each one is different yet filled with love. Just remember — if you’re looking to create your own tradition, they usually come naturally. Think about the elements of the season you love the most and how you can share them with the rest of your family.