“There will be people who won’t support your change when they can’t benefit from it. It’s hard for selfish hearts to be happy for others. Never feel guilty for growing. Those who are meant to be in your life will rise with you.”
Selfish individuals are charming, kind, and incredibly sweet all the time. Indeed, they truly are. You never know; you can even be in a relationship with a self-centered individual at the moment, or your greatest buddy could be a selfish person.
Sadly, because they tend to hide their negative aspects so well, selfish people’s characteristics are difficult to identify. However, as the relationship progresses, you might begin to feel emotionally vulnerable in their presence.
Before you realize it, they might drain you of all your happiness, leaving you with nothing to do but watch helplessly.
A person who prioritizes their personal pleasures over the well-being of others is considered selfish. Their comfort is their primary concern, with little regard for others. People who are selfish are polite and kind to everyone, but only to the extent that they receive something more in return from those around them.
It’s okay for you to cut harmful people out of your life. You have to put your needs first today, regardless of how much you care about them or how much fun you’ve shared with them in the past. Keep in mind that although you may be the one ending the relationship, you are not the cause of this.
It was something they did to themselves. It’s their fault. Not yours. First and foremost, you must look for yourself. You must prioritize your own needs. Even if it is painful, you must prioritize yourself.
It’s okay to put your needs first. Don’t feel bad about it. After all, you’re the one person you can truly depend on, so don’t be afraid to pursue your happiness. Those that are intended to be in your life will join you in your journey.